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Ghosting is nearly always about the other person's interest level dropping below the effort of writing a message - not about something you did wrong in the last exchange.
The parts you control are earlier: how much momentum the conversation had, and whether it was going anywhere.
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If it happens after two or three messages, the conversation never got going, and that is fixable - see the section on conversations dying.
If it happens after a plan is made, that is usually them, and no amount of profile work changes it.
If it happens after the first date, it is information about the date, not the profile.
Momentum. Conversations with real back-and-forth get ghosted far less than ones that are politely limping.
Speed to meeting. The longer a thread runs without a plan, the more likely it dissolves.
Filtering. A profile that states intent clearly gets fewer matches and far fewer that evaporate.
Some of it is unavoidable and carries no information. People match while bored, match several people at once, and drop the ones they are least invested in.
Treating every disappearance as a verdict on you will make you worse at this, not better.
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